It’s Valentine’s Day. A day that has been wildly commercialized. It’s a day that people spend a lot of money on chocolate and decorate with pinks and reds that make any room look like the Hallmark Store had a fight with itself. And lost.
And while there are many who publicly oppose the notion of celebrating such a day that commercializes love, I believe the heart behind the day is pure.
Today gives children an opportunity to express their care for one another through cleverly themed valentine notes at school. Today gives little girls a chance to tell little boys that they think he’s cute. Today gives classmates something to look forward to, even if it’s just the candy. Today reminds us that we need to tell our loved ones that they are special.
So I want to take this opportunity, this Valentine’s Day, to let you know how much you mean to me.
I admire you. I admire the way you mother our little James. He is a precious gift from God, and God has graciously given him to us to take care of. You do this beautifully. You love him perfectly. You care for his needs, well, in ways that I physically can’t. I could not think of a better mom for our James.
I enjoy you. That is, I enjoy spending time with you. I enjoy that we are both introverts, and that we can both be content with sitting in silence and have by-you time (you more than me, sometimes).
I look forward to continued primitive roads with you. Ever since that literal primitive road in rural eastern Washington, I knew life with Emily would be filled with primitive roads. And I wouldn’t have it any other way. We have had many adventures in our short life together, and this will probably not end. We’ll likely have so many more primitive road experiences, and I love that. I love that I get to experience them with you.
I appreciate your love. Your love for me is great, I see that every day. And I appreciate the way you love me. I appreciate you letting me sleep (even though I really want to help change diapers in the middle of the night… really!). I appreciate breakfast in bed once in a while (really, you shouldn’t have!). I appreciate the way you hug me in the mornings and after I come home from work. The way you love me is perfect.
To be honest, the words are not enough. I love you more than I can express. I love you more than I ever thought possible.
It’s Valentine’s Day. A day to stop and reflect on the loves in your life. I know that today is not the only day to do this, and that expressing love is a daily act in any relationship. But today, this is how I will say: I love you, my Emily.